When you present the idea of running a NFP one of the first
things you’re told is that it is going to be extremely hard to get funding
because of all of the government budget cuts. Take this advice and run with it
because believe it or not it is not hard, but it is hard work. You have to be
willing to put in the man hours to write those grants, fill out those RFP’s,
and solicit, in all forms or fashion. Who
would have thought that I can get someone to invest in nails, but not in
providing a youth center for teens to grow?
True
Story: One of my friends recently came to me and stated that he wanted to open
a nail salon and would like my assistance. After about 2 days he came back to
me and stated he needed the business plan completed as soon as possible because
he had an investor lined up ready to sign. This instantly shook me not because
I wasn't happy for my friend, but because it was that easy to get someone to
believe in a profitable business vs. and non-profit designed to help the
community.
When I think about the situation I analyze the meetings, the
phone calls, and the overwhelming amount of opinions that people have about
NFPs. In the beginning you have a lot of help and everyone is on your team, but
by the 3rd quarter you look around and your left with 1 or 2
franchise players and you’re wondering what happened. This is when you have to take a step back and
evaluate yourself and your program as a whole.
As an organization you wonder what you can do to keep yourself a float
on a raft that it seems everyone is poking holes in. What you do is focus on the WHY and realizes
that the raft may have holes, but you still have your life vest and shore is
right there. The next thing you know you have jumped out that raft and started
to swim and with each stroke you gain hedge way.
It seems in today’s
society it is not enough to want to help your community, but you have to beg
for the funds and support to get it going. Even after you work through the
frustration, paperwork, and setbacks you still have to keep the WHY present in
your mind. The WHY is the most important part of opening a NFP because it is
the part that will keep you motivated to succeed in what you’re trying to do?
Why do I continue to push for an all-girls community center
in Chicago? It is because these young ladies need a place to call theirs. They need a stable place that is not there
for judgment, but guidance and growth. A
center where reality is there real life issues and not what the media or peer
pressure tells them it should be. Mentors who listen, teach, and help cultivate
dreams into obtainable goals. It is a place for them to vent and talk to
someone who can give them sound advice when they feel alone in this world. E.O.G. is not just for mentors building up
mentees it is for girls growing to be women that build up their community.
You ask WHY? Well let’s see it is because instead of having
baby showers I would rather see them having graduation parties. Or better yet
instead of them having goals of being on World Star Hip Hop, Bossip, Twitter, and all other tabloids by creating demeaning videos, I
would rather see them throwing trunk parties for college. Instead of purchasing
the latest fashions, hair, or trends I would rather see them raising money for
their school activities, tuition, and books. Instead of being the school fun girl I would
rather see them be the school Valedictorian.
Or giving hope to the teen moms so that they know life hasn't ended because of the
decision they made. They can still go on to be good mom’s and successful in
life.
To many people I am known as old fashion and at first I used to be
like I am very in tune with today’s society, but then I had to stop and think I
am not and yes I am old fashioned. I know that being old fashioned is what makes
me push so hard for E.O.G. A non-profit is not a business that is for everyone and that is extremely true in the
case of someone looking for instant gratification or financial gain. My mentees
ask me why I am so blunt and up front with them and I tell them because I have
to be. The world is not going to handle
them with kid gloves and neither will I because that is giving them a false
since of security.
Mentors are not here to replace parents, but help parents
get their kids to open up and communicate with a level headed grownup that is
able to guide some of the decisions they are making. Do I see myself being a mentor years from now
I say yes, absolutely, 100% because there will always be a young lady out there
that just needs to talk. If they are not talking to parents then the question becomes who are they talking to?
By Monique Lloyd
By Monique Lloyd